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The Fifteen-Minute Friends Problem
Count the people who could be at your kitchen table within fifteen minutes. For most retirees the number is zero.
By Ryan Scott
Work is an accidental friendship machine. It supplies proximity, repetition, and a shared problem — the three ingredients of adult friendship.
Retire, and all three vanish on the same afternoon. Moving somewhere sunny removes them twice.
The contrarian rule: before you optimize for weather, optimize for the fifteen-minute radius. Recurring, in-person, low-effort contact beats an annual reunion with the best people you've ever known.
Where do you actually stand?
The free Retirement Reality Check scores all five categories and names your primary risk.